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By Neal Boulton at 9:43AM on June 25, 2009
posted by
Sun, 11/30/2008 - 9:19am

Too! True! Great reminder.


posted by
Sun, 11/30/2008 - 9:25am

Hell yeah! Please...!


posted by
Sun, 11/30/2008 - 9:26am

My god, I've been more of a man then the MEN I bed. Somehow they find this hotter so I am happy.


posted by
Sun, 11/30/2008 - 9:27am

Right on Girl!


posted by
Sun, 11/30/2008 - 9:29am

This is very true of myself. However, when I am truley INTIMATE with someone, I go right back to being vulnerable and a sensual woman. Anything other than true intimacy is just sex. Not that's a bad thing. But in such sex only situations, I bed 'em like a guy. Smiling


posted by
Sun, 11/30/2008 - 9:30am

@Brawson: I could not agree more with your distinction here. It really comes down to sex or intimacy for me as well. Great photograph. I love this site!


posted by
Sun, 11/30/2008 - 9:31am

You go girl!


posted by
Sun, 11/30/2008 - 9:34am

.....interesting....I've been madly in love with everyone i've ever had a sexual escapade with-----well-----at least in that moment****ha!!


posted by
Sun, 11/30/2008 - 9:37am

I must say that I fall in love a bit as well with each touch of passion, however, it truly is a matter of intimacy. I love, live for, and consider sex important in my life. I have needs. I prefer a romance over a romp, and love making over sex. BUT I could never give up a solid roll in the hay. I am a woman the core and I do get vulnerable.


posted by
Sun, 11/30/2008 - 9:39am

I much agree with this conversation. I can bed them, and walk away. I don't lose myself unless I let myself get lost. Sex alone is not the passion vulnerable trigger for me. Love is, and with love has come intimacy for me. Sex...such fun, cannot replace that. But to be honest, I love both categories of nakedness! Smiling


posted by
Mon, 12/01/2008 - 2:14am

god i love this site---I am a total guy when it comes to sex in between women that I am not fully in love with. I would trade it though for the real thing which to me is making love and being IN LOVE and fully intimate. vulnerability is a wonderous and beautiful thing when I am in love...


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