"My girlfriend obsesses about the women I bedded when we were apart briefly. For me, it was nothing. They were fun lays, but merely me killing time until we got back together. Why does everyone think that just because we are women, sex is any more than it is for a man. Bed post notches—it's possible for us, too. And besides, none of them compared with my honey who thankfully is back in my arms for good!" —Roxan, NYC
Too! True! Great reminder.
Hell yeah! Please...!
My god, I've been more of a man then the MEN I bed. Somehow they find this hotter so I am happy.
Right on Girl!
This is very true of myself. However, when I am truley INTIMATE with someone, I go right back to being vulnerable and a sensual woman. Anything other than true intimacy is just sex. Not that's
a bad thing. But in such sex only situations, I bed 'em like a guy. 
@Brawson: I could not agree more with your distinction here. It really comes down to sex or intimacy for me as well. Great photograph. I love this site!
You go girl!
.....interesting....I've been madly in love with everyone i've ever had a sexual escapade with-----well-----at least in that moment****ha!!
I must say that I fall in love a bit as well with each touch of passion, however, it truly is a matter of intimacy. I love, live for, and consider sex important in my life. I have needs. I prefer a romance over a romp, and love making over sex. BUT I could never give up a solid roll in the hay. I am a woman the core and I do get vulnerable.
I much agree with this conversation. I can bed them, and walk away. I don't lose myself unless I let myself get lost. Sex alone is not the passion vulnerable trigger for me. Love is, and with
love has come intimacy for me. Sex...such fun, cannot replace that. But to be honest, I love both categories of nakedness!
god i love this site---I am a total guy when it comes to sex in between women that I am not fully in love with. I would trade it though for the real thing which to me is making love and being IN LOVE and fully intimate. vulnerability is a wonderous and beautiful thing when I am in love...
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