An apple a day. "My girlfriend and I have been what we call 'married' for over a decade and there have been years where we were intimate often, then years where we weren't. During the weeks when we weren't having enough sex, one of us, or both of us, would get grumpy and we'd usually end up being short and snippy with each other or arguing about something stupid. A distance would grow between us. Eventually, we got it—and now we don't go a day without being intimate. It doesn't have to be full on porn perfect, but we make sure we at least fool around. Our marriage has never been better. Through the loss of jobs and less money, or hell having tons of money, or in sickness and in health, getting it on each day has been the key. I once leaned in and asked my grandfather who is still alive and happily married, "What's the real secret to why you and Grandma are so happy?" He grinned and winked at me as he slapped her ass." Amen—Wendy, Bakersfield, CA
