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Hurt So Good?

When ouch does not necessarily mean no. In a recent poll of 6,419 BastardLife readers, 43% admitted enjoying a spanking during climax.

"It's not out right painful when you're cumming—it's a combination of numbing and titillating with just the smallest tingle of hot pain," Julie from Arizona told us.

22% of you let us know you were very curious about spankings but had yet to ask for one out of fear of your partner's reaction.

I love it," Lauren from New York City said, "but I have yet to ask my current girlfriend to do it to me yet because we only just started dating. Soon I'm going to tell her just what to do. The key is, as soon as I start to cum, start lightly slapping my ass, increase the intensity of your slaps as my climax increases. Slow it down to lighter as I start to wind down. Simple."

A small percentage of you said the last spanking you got was from your mother decades ago and you saw no reason for another one.—N.B..

By Neal Boulton at 11:27AM on March 01, 2013
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