He's hung like a horse. You are having a hard time taking it. Now what?
Q: My partner is extremely well endowed. The first time we were intimate together, I looked down and said, "Jackpot." But the reality is that a large member is not for me. I found it a great novelty that has worn off and I miss more regular sized men. He's a great, fun guy, but how do I move on—just because of his anatomy?—LeAnn W., Flagstaff, AZ.
A: The ergonomics of genitals play a major role in the sexual compatibility of couples. Bottom line—if you're not comfortable during your intimate time, you need to be honest about it with yourself. Then, be honest with him—without judgement. Compromising sexually leads to the many ills that face couples, whether they are dating or married, like infidelity.Key Tip: You know what works for you. If you are not comfortable, or satisfied, you may be able to compromise and 'put up with it' for quite awhile, but in time, denying yourself what you like more will only lead to disappointment and a sexual life that you know could be much better. Size does matter, and don't feel bad, most folks like average over massive anyway.—N.B.
