Susan told her new boyfriend Mick at 3 in the morning she would "only put up with one, maybe two more nights without an orgasm." That night he had three. She was still aching for her first—which she later granted to herself, like a long overdue birthday gift, while he dutifully touched her breasts and inner thighs, sort of.
Still, it was nothing compared to the gushing transcendence Susan achieved from Jen.
Many of us are like Mick: we think we’ve mastered her most erogenous zone. Some women, who lie about orgasm out of embarrassment, perpetuate this false knowledge. But truly knowing how to hit her G-spot is key—if you plan to keep her coming back for more. Here's why: For 70% of women, penetration alone is not enough to bring them to climax. So much for the power of the cock. And that's a hell of a lot of Susan and Jens walking the earth who 'ain't got no—satisfaction.' Want a way to get laid more? We know you do, so, understand her orgasm. First rule of understanding? Don’t ask a man—ever. Get advice from a woman like Susan, who gets off with another woman—like Jen.
We’ll let Susan spill the science:
Want to give me pleasure?
The most elusive part of my female anatomy is a ridged surface—approximately the size of a nickel—about two inches into my vagina, on the front wall. You can locate the G-spot by inserting two fingers inside, yeah, two, with your palm facing up.
Clitoral orgasms: The Best tool to give me one? Your fingers. Use the middle digit on your dominant hand (only 10-percent of you are left-handed, but if you are you’re more likely to be a genius…) with help from your pointer. Always use the padded middle of your finger, not the tip or nail. Boys and girls—get a manicure before you go exploring inside of me, please.
Initial technique: Find out what my motion of choice is—either little circles, or flicks upward or downward. Pay attention to nonverbal cues (like my gyrating or tensing).
Troubleshooting: Lubrication is crucial at this point. If occasionally dipping into my well doesn't work, reach for the K-Y® Brand Jelly—or just spit.
Drive me over the edge: While continuing with the stroke of choice, make your touch broader by using more of your hand. Add a bit more pressure until you bring me to the promised land.
SLOW TO FIRE? Reload ammo.
Second-best tool: My vibrator. Use mostly the head of the toy, rather than the shaft. Choose between the classic ridged variety and the smoother bullet style.
Initial technique: Rub the vibrator up and down along my entire private part, slowly. Use light pressure and a low setting. Don't be scared of the vibrator—you need to hold it firmly in order to satisfy me.
Troubleshooting: Hold the toy before using it, to warm it up. (Cold is a definite turnoff.) Remember to ask me if I want it turned up or down a notch. And click on some music to drown out the hum.
Drive me over the edge: Focus all your attention on my clitoris. Then, as I get more into it, start making longer movements from the clitoris to the G-spot and back. Rock it—and me.
VAGINAL ORGASMS
Best tool to give me one: Your tongue. Use the tip and flat middle of your tongue as the primary source of stimulation.
Initial technique: Make firm motions with the tip and middle of your tongue. Then slip the clit into your mouth and massage with your tongue, as if sucking on a tic tac.
Troubleshooting: Don't be shy about using your hands to hold my "lips" open—pull me apart, it's the best way you'll get the very best access and the best taste of me.
Drive me over the edge: As I become excited, broaden your strokes and make them firmer. When I’m close to an orgasm, use your fingers to rub my G-spot as well. Get me off!
SLOW TO FIRE? Reload ammo.
Second-best tool: Your manhood. Focus your energy on what you do with your head, not your shaft. The ridge that separates the head from the shaft feels particularly good—always.
Initial technique: Go for it: make short motions in and out of my vagina. As I become excited, add longer, and deeper thrusts. Vary the pace and tempo—mix it up. And always look me dead in the eye. (Remember to keep the clitoral stimulation going on as well—with your thumb would be hot).
Troubleshooting: Contrary to what you've been taught, deeper thrusts do not equal a better orgasm. In fact, once past the G-spot, there's not much within my vagina that stimulates pleasure more.
Drive me over the edge: While using short thrusts, grab hold of the base of your penis and press upward, hell, grab my breasts, lick my lips, suck on my tongue—and touch me like I am the most beautiful woman you've ever been with. Continue with short thrusting motions, gradually getting faster and faster—until I climax and cream all of over you. You'll feel it, and see it when it happens.
EXTRA CREDIT
Do what your boyfriend likes when you go down on him—if you can swing it—and graze my anus with a finger or two while you—and I—descend into bliss!—S.T.
